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		<title>By: minyak wangi pemikat</title>
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		<dc:creator>minyak wangi pemikat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 03:33:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 10:58:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Pharmb576</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pharmb576</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 10:57:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Good News: You Can’t Have it All &#124; Beyond Growth &#171; Shoshana Jackson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Good News: You Can’t Have it All &#124; Beyond Growth &#171; Shoshana Jackson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Nov 2010 13:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Good News: You Can’t Have it All &#124; Beyond&#160;Growth By Shana    I also try to remind myself of the truth of suffering with the affirmation “I imperfectly accept my imperfections,” but feel free to write your own affirmations that make you smile and remind you of your humanness. A Christian might pray the serenity prayer, something I contemplate often: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.” If you feel uncomfortable with the word “God,” try rephrasing it as “May I have the serenity…” or however else would suit your metaphysics. via beyondgrowth.net [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Good News: You Can’t Have it All | Beyond&nbsp;Growth By Shana    I also try to remind myself of the truth of suffering with the affirmation “I imperfectly accept my imperfections,” but feel free to write your own affirmations that make you smile and remind you of your humanness. A Christian might pray the serenity prayer, something I contemplate often: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.” If you feel uncomfortable with the word “God,” try rephrasing it as “May I have the serenity…” or however else would suit your metaphysics. via beyondgrowth.net [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Duff McDuffee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Duff McDuffee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 20:07:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No one form of transformation fits all, but I encourage you to seek whatever calls you. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No one form of transformation fits all, but I encourage you to seek whatever calls you.</p>
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		<title>By: Morgen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Morgen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 08:37:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you started promoting a form of transformation i would not have continued, the brief mention of it was enough for me to become curious.  I enjoyed the article and will spend sometime exploring the site because of that. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you started promoting a form of transformation i would not have continued, the brief mention of it was enough for me to become curious.  I enjoyed the article and will spend sometime exploring the site because of that.</p>
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		<title>By: NLP and the myth of the quick fix &#171; Living Well NLP</title>
		<link>http://beyondgrowth.net/personal-development/good-news-you-cant-have-it-all/comment-page-1/#comment-1741</link>
		<dc:creator>NLP and the myth of the quick fix &#171; Living Well NLP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 09:09:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] also think we cause harm by allowing NLP practitioners and trainers to make ridiculous claims without being publicly criticized or held accountable for the results they actually [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] also think we cause harm by allowing NLP practitioners and trainers to make ridiculous claims without being publicly criticized or held accountable for the results they actually [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Alexander</title>
		<link>http://beyondgrowth.net/personal-development/good-news-you-cant-have-it-all/comment-page-1/#comment-1231</link>
		<dc:creator>Alexander</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Duff. I&#039;m not accustomed to agreeing (or at least not flat-out disagreeing) with so much of what one human writes. I&#039;m really happy that you are writing. 
 
Yes, the pursuit of perfection is poisonous. I&#039;m changing tracks as we speak with regard to it - the use of Core Transformation has been helping me a great deal in accepting being perfectly imperfect, or something, and has highlighted for me just how much suffering is caused by a) the understanding that things are not as they would be if they were perfect and b) seeking to make everything (including ourselves) fit whatever vision of perfect we have. 
 
Interestingly, however, I would not say that I have ceased looking for perfection. I think it&#039;s just a different perfection that I&#039;m following now. It&#039;s a perfection of acceptance, a perfection of happiness. Is this more healthy, or just a paint job on a still-not-cool type of focus? I don&#039;t know, but it&#039;s certainly what I&#039;m doing. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Duff. I&#039;m not accustomed to agreeing (or at least not flat-out disagreeing) with so much of what one human writes. I&#039;m really happy that you are writing. </p>
<p>Yes, the pursuit of perfection is poisonous. I&#039;m changing tracks as we speak with regard to it &#8211; the use of Core Transformation has been helping me a great deal in accepting being perfectly imperfect, or something, and has highlighted for me just how much suffering is caused by a) the understanding that things are not as they would be if they were perfect and b) seeking to make everything (including ourselves) fit whatever vision of perfect we have. </p>
<p>Interestingly, however, I would not say that I have ceased looking for perfection. I think it&#039;s just a different perfection that I&#039;m following now. It&#039;s a perfection of acceptance, a perfection of happiness. Is this more healthy, or just a paint job on a still-not-cool type of focus? I don&#039;t know, but it&#039;s certainly what I&#039;m doing.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:39:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t help but put my two bits in here.  I used to work for one of the secret teachers UNTIL I could no longer agree with the persons ethics.  I discovered so much was going on behind my back and behind the backs of this persons clients that I was absolutely disgusted.  This all was by someone who was claiming to be the guru of so much and a christian.  I no longer buy anything to do with personal development in fact I treat it like a very serious drug addiction. For anyone caught in the web of charm and visualising, take a very hard look at yourself, your success and ask as many questions as you can think of from the person you are buying anything from. If you are criticised or do not like anything that you are being told start asking more questions because this is the point where you need to completely separate yourself.  Full separation is the ONLY answer.  I have seen far too much damage to too many lives as a result of one persons greed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t help but put my two bits in here.  I used to work for one of the secret teachers UNTIL I could no longer agree with the persons ethics.  I discovered so much was going on behind my back and behind the backs of this persons clients that I was absolutely disgusted.  This all was by someone who was claiming to be the guru of so much and a christian.  I no longer buy anything to do with personal development in fact I treat it like a very serious drug addiction. For anyone caught in the web of charm and visualising, take a very hard look at yourself, your success and ask as many questions as you can think of from the person you are buying anything from. If you are criticised or do not like anything that you are being told start asking more questions because this is the point where you need to completely separate yourself.  Full separation is the ONLY answer.  I have seen far too much damage to too many lives as a result of one persons greed.</p>
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		<title>By: The Hollow Sink of Push-Button Enlightenment &#124; Beyond Growth</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Hollow Sink of Push-Button Enlightenment &#124; Beyond Growth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 08:53:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] a guarantee like that from a suspected homicidal guru and master of hyperbole, it&#8217;s no wonder Bill Harris has mysteriously removed James Arthur Ray&#8217;s testimonial [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] a guarantee like that from a suspected homicidal guru and master of hyperbole, it&#8217;s no wonder Bill Harris has mysteriously removed James Arthur Ray&#8217;s testimonial [...]</p>
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